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When Someone You Love Is Deceived: A Biblical Response
Show: Contending for the Word Q&A
Host: Dave Jenkins
Series: Discernment Month
Show Summary
When deception touches someone we love, discernment becomes deeply personal. In this episode of Contending for the Word Q&A, Dave Jenkins explains how Christians are called to respond biblically when a spouse, child, close friend, or fellow church member begins drifting from biblical truth. Anchored in James 5:19–20 and Galatians 6:1, this episode calls believers to speak the truth with gentleness, pursue restoration, and trust God with the outcome.
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Episode Notes
Today’s Question
How should Christians respond biblically when someone they love is deceived?
Anchor Biblical Texts
James 5:19–20
“My brothers, if anyone among you wanders from the truth and someone brings him back, let him know that whoever brings back a sinner from his wandering will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.”
Galatians 6:1
“Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.”
Central Truth
When someone we love is deceived, Scripture calls us to respond with truth, anchored clarity, patient hope, and humble faithfulness—trusting God with the outcome.
Four Biblical Principles for Responding Faithfully
- Deception is spiritually serious, not relationally optional.
Scripture never treats deception as harmless. Wandering from the truth leads toward spiritual ruin, and love refuses to pretend that error is safe. - Restoration—not argument—is the goal.
Galatians 6:1 does not call us to win debates but to seek restoration. Truth without love crushes, and love without truth deceives. Biblical discernment holds both together. - Our posture must be gentle and humble.
“Keep watch on yourself” guards us from pride. We speak as those who stand by grace alone. Gentleness is not weakness, and humility is not silence—it is Christlike restraint shaped by reverence for God. - We speak faithfully and trust God with the results.
God calls us to faithfulness, not control. We speak truth clearly, pray persistently, love steadily, and entrust the outcome to the Lord who opens blind eyes and grants repentance.
Call to Action
If this episode encouraged you, please share it with someone who needs biblical clarity in a difficult relationship. Stand firm in the Word. Love courageously. Speak truth patiently.
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Dave Jenkins is happily married to his wife, Sarah, and lives in beautiful Southern Oregon. He is a writer, editor, and speaker who loves Christ, His people, the Church, and sound theology.
Dave serves as the Executive Director of Servants of Grace Ministries and the Executive Editor of Theology for Life Magazine. He is the Host and Producer of the Equipping You in Grace Podcast and a contributor to and producer of Contending for the Word.
He is the author of The War of Worldviews: Truth, Lies, and the Battle for the Christian Mind (Theology for Life, 2026), Contentment: The Journey of a Lifetime (Theology for Life, 2024), The Word Matters: Defending Biblical Authority Against the Spirit of the Age (G3 Press, 2022), and The Word Explored: The Problem of Biblical Illiteracy and What To Do About It (House to House, 2021).
You can connect with Dave on Facebook, X (Twitter), Instagram, YouTube, or subscribe to his newsletter.
When he is not engaged in ministry work, Dave enjoys spending time with his wife, going to movies, sharing a meal at a favorite restaurant, or playing a round of golf with friends. He is also a voracious reader, particularly of Reformed theology and the Puritans, and is often found working through a stack of new books from a wide range of Christian publishers.
Dave earned his M.A.R. and M.Div. from Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary.
