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🎙️ Episode 2: The Lies We Believe – Deconstructing the Deceptions of Lust
Host: Dave Jenkins | Warriors of Grace
Series: Why Men Must Fight and Speak Out Against Sexual Sin
Episode Summary:
Sexual sin doesn’t begin in the body—it begins in the mind. In this episode of Warriors of Grace, Dave Jenkins walks men through four common lies that fuel lust and temptation—and how to confront those lies with the truth of God’s Word.
- Recognize the deceitfulness of sin (James 1:14–15)
- Replace cultural lies with biblical truth
- Fight temptation not silently—but biblically
- Walk in lasting freedom grounded in the finished work of Christ
📖 Scripture Covered:
- James 1:14–15
- Hebrews 3:13
- 1 Corinthians 6:18
- Ephesians 4:30
- 1 Thessalonians 4:7–8
- Matthew 5:8
- 1 Corinthians 10:13
- Romans 8:1
📝 Short Article: The Lies Men Believe About Lust—and the Truth That Sets Them Free
By Dave Jenkins | Warriors of Grace
Lust doesn’t start with a click—it starts with a lie.
Before any man gives in to temptation, he’s already been deceived. The real war is in the mind. And if Christian men are going to walk in purity, they must learn to confront the lies they believe with the truth of God’s Word.
The Battlefield of the Mind
James 1:14–15 makes it clear: sin doesn’t leap fully formed into our lives—it grows. It begins with desire, twisted by deception. Hebrews 3:13 calls this the “deceitfulness of sin.” Unless we call out the lie, we can’t truly repent.
Four Lies That Fuel Lust
- “This isn’t hurting anyone.”
Truth: 1 Corinthians 6:18 says sexual sin is uniquely damaging—it wounds your own soul and corrupts how you see others. - “God doesn’t really care about this.”
Truth: 1 Thessalonians 4:7–8 reminds us that sexual purity is God’s will, and to ignore it is to disregard Him. - “I’ll stop when I get married.”
Truth: Lust isn’t a singleness issue—it’s a heart issue. Marriage reveals it; it doesn’t fix it. - “I’ll never be free.”
Truth: 1 Corinthians 10:13 assures us that God always provides a way of escape. Your feelings don’t define your freedom—Christ does.
Fighting Back with Truth
Jesus didn’t argue with Satan—He quoted Scripture. When lies invade your mind, don’t reason—respond with the Word. That’s why memorizing Scripture matters. Because when temptation comes, you need God’s truth written on your heart.
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Why is lust so deceptive for Christian men?
A: Because sin begins in the mind. We often rationalize behavior by believing it’s harmless, private, or fixable later. Scripture tells us sin hardens us through deception (Hebrews 3:13).
Q: What is the most dangerous lie men believe?
A: “I’ll never be free.” This lie leads to despair and passivity. But 1 Corinthians 10:13 declares that God is faithful and always provides a way of escape.
Q: Can marriage help me overcome lust?
A: Not by itself. Lust is not resolved by external circumstances—it’s conquered by internal renewal. Only Christ can purify the heart (Matt. 5:8).
Q: How can I fight back when temptation hits?
A: Memorize one verse that directly counters the lie you believe. Meditate on it daily. Speak it aloud when tempted. Don’t fight silently—fight biblically.
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🙏 Thank you for listening or watching this episode of Warriors of Grace. If this helped you, share it with a brother in Christ—and remember: don’t fight alone. Stand firm in grace, anchored in truth.
Dave Jenkins is happily married to his wife, Sarah. He is a writer, editor, and speaker living in beautiful Southern Oregon. Dave is a lover of Christ, His people, the Church, and sound theology. He serves as the Executive Director of Servants of Grace Ministries, the Executive Editor of Theology for Life Magazine, the Host and Producer of Equipping You in Grace Podcast, and is a contributor to and producer of Contending for the Word. He is the author of The Word Explored: The Problem of Biblical Illiteracy and What To Do About It (House to House, 2021), The Word Matters: Defending Biblical Authority Against the Spirit of the Age (G3 Press, 2022), and Contentment: The Journey of a Lifetime (Theology for Life, 2024). You can find him on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Youtube, or read his newsletter. Dave loves to spend time with his wife, going to movies, eating at a nice restaurant, or going out for a round of golf with a good friend. He is also a voracious reader, in particular of Reformed theology, and the Puritans. You will often find him when he’s not busy with ministry reading a pile of the latest books from a wide variety of Christian publishers. Dave received his M.A.R. and M.Div through Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary.
