Ask yourself these seven questions when you face problems, trials, or other kinds of suffering.
- What is being exposed about my trust in God through this trial?
Am I panicky? Frustrated? Angry? Fearful? Do I pray or worry? Complain or give thanks?
2. What demands, rights, or expectations are being humbled by this trial?
Health? Attention from others? Independence? Frustration and anger usually show something I expect or demand has been denied.
3. What priorities or desires is God re-ordering through this trial?
Love of efficiency? Love of routine? Love of success? Desire for ease? Desire for control? Desire for predictability? Etc..
4. What might God be loosening my grip on?
What am I still grasping for, even though I can’t get it?
5. What has this trial forced me to do that I usually tend to neglect?
Pray more? Listen to God’s Word? Receive service from others? Cultivate love for God and others? Etc..
6. What sinful responses come out of me during this trial?
Murmuring? Impatience? Self-pity? Blame? Anger? Unbelief?…etc
7. What godly characteristics are needed for this trial but are lacking in me?
Endurance? Gratitude? Patience? Humility?
David de Bruyn was born in Johannesburg, South Africa, where he now pastors New Covenant Baptist Church and resides with his wife and three children. He is a graduate of Central Baptist Theological Seminary in Minnesota and the University of South Africa (D.Th.). David hosts a weekly radio program that is heard throughout much of central South Africa, serves as a frequent conference speaker, and is a lecturer at Shepherds Seminary Africa. Check out his website.