Posted On October 9, 2016

Shame: Is It Crouching at Your Door?

by | Oct 9, 2016 | The Gospel and the Christian Life, Featured

There’s a type of sadness that often lingers in the air in many counseling sessions. It isn’t always easily identified, especially early on in a counseling relationship, but through the process of listening and peeling back the layers and years of a person’s life story, it eventually rises to the surface.

It tries to hide, but once you see it, its presence in and influence over the heart is unmistakable. That it has to go is undeniable. We often confuse it with guilt, the legal term we assign to one adjudicated guilty of breaking the law.

But we aren’t dealing with guilt. That matter, for the follower of Christ Jesus, has been dealt with in the cross. For them, “there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Rom. 8:1).

Instead, the ugly beast we’re dealing with in this post is shame. One of the last vestiges and schemes of the devil in the life of a believer.

Put on the full armor of God to that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.

(Eph. 6:11).

A Wicked Scheme

Through the sinister and enslaving power of shame, Satan intends to impugn, slander, and silence the Christian by tempting them to doubt the manifold goodness and wisdom of God who has in fact cleansed them from all unrighteousness.

Shame infects the lives of many who have been scarred by the effects of their own sin or the sins of others. It’s like the voice of the enemy, Satan, who’s not only the father of lies but who exists to accuse the saints before God (John 8:44; Rev. 12:10).

Whether a person was the villain or the victim (and we’ve all been both), shame tempts the heart to disbelieve that they have been clothed in Christ’s righteousness, but that they remain unclean and therefore unpresentable to God.

In his book Shame Interrupted, Dr. Ed Welch of CCEF defines shame in this way:

Shame is the deep sense that you are unacceptable because of something you did, something done to you, or something associated with you. You feel exposed and humiliated.

Unacceptable. Exposed. Humiliated.

Each of these are indeed effects of the curse of sin and death, but they are effects that Christ suffered on our behalf and rescued us from once and for all, by grace alone through faith alone (Is. 53:5; Eph. 2:8-9).

The power of shame is found in its ability to lead the heart into hiding and isolation in darkness. We see its first handiwork when, rather than running to the Father in the garden at the first moment of rebellion, Adam and Eve hid themselves from God, and self-righteously attempted to cover their shame with leaves.

But God, being rich in mercy, provided them with animal skins, and thus began the greatest story of redemption known to man (Gen. 3:21; Eph. 2:4). What began as a sacrificial system of the blood of bulls and goats would finally give way to the sacrifice of his own son, the sinless Lamb of God, Jesus Christ (Heb. 9:22; 10:4).

Clothed in Righteousness

For many, the experience of shame in the heart is debilitating. It’s foundational to much depression and anxiety. It can’t be treated medicinally because it’s not a physical pathology, but a spiritual reality.

Shame is a great enemy of the soul, but the gospel is its end. If you struggle with shame, sharing this with God through prayer and allowing another to bear your burden with you together carry the hope for freedom at last (Gal. 5:1; 6:2;Jm. 5:16).

Struggling sinner and suffering saint, in Christ, shame has no claim on you.

For encouragement, consider the words of the following great hymn produced by Ligonier Ministries, “Clothed in Righteousness”:

 

Fallen race in Eden fair

Exposed and full of shame

Fled we naked from Thy sight

Far from Thy holy Name

Refrain

Clothe us in Your righteousness

Hide filthy rags of sin

Dress us in Your perfect garb

Both outside and within

Sent from the garden in the east

Outside of Eden’s gate

Banished there from Thy pure light

Were Adam and his mate

Scarlet souls are now like snow

By Thy atoning grace

Crimson hearts become like wool

For Adam’s fallen race

Refrain

No work of ours is good enough

For evil to atone

Your merit, Lord, is all we have

It saves, and it alone

 

Related Posts

Some Keys to Finding a Good Word-Centered, Christ-Honoring Church

Some Keys to Finding a Good Word-Centered, Christ-Honoring Church

On today’s Equipping You in Grace show, Dave considers some marks of a healthy local church, what to look for and avoid in a local church, and why local churches should be firmly grounded in and shaped by the Word of God. What you'll hear in this episode What a...

When Does God (Not Man) Consider a Couple Married?

When Does God (Not Man) Consider a Couple Married?

Suppose a young man came to you for biblical counseling concerning the ongoing tension and conflict with his ‘partner.’ Oh, by the way, he and his girlfriend are living together, though there has never been a wedding. He says to you, “Well, we’ve already committed to...

The Forbidden Fruit

The Forbidden Fruit

Genesis 3:1-5, “Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You[a] shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” 2 And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit...

Amazing Grace

Amazing Grace

On today’s Warriors of Grace show, Dave continues the Titus series looking at Titus 3:4-7 and the reasons, resources, and results of grace. What you’ll hear in this episode The Reasons of Grace The Resources of Grace The Results of Grace How Sweet the Sound!...

Principles of Personal Bible Study

Principles of Personal Bible Study

Host Kimberly Cummings interviews special guest Betty Price about reading plans, memorization, meditation, and other principles of personal Bible study like observation and application.

What About Evil by Scott Christensen

What About Evil by Scott Christensen

The Church is blessed with a brand-new resource on the problem of evil. This subject has been heavily debated for two-thousand years. It is a subject that many evangelists fear. A seeming lack of an answer is often used as an intellectual argument against the...

0 Comments

Share5
Tweet8
Email
Reddit
Share